Crushed By your Crush

Love, Lovedy, Love , Love…..💒  

Ahhh, the power of loveeee… NOT

Sorry, I just ruined that for you but unfortunately it’s my job. You just got to deal with it. So anyway, I’m sure you guys have probably already guessed what I’m going to be talking about tonight. And yes you are correct is crush’s, and living up to the moment you were just crushed BY your crush ( Didn’t I write that as the title?) . Since, I am a Hopless Romantic as you all know it I have decided to do this for y’all tonight and you e’ betta’ be listenin’. Ummm Hmmm (Head circle thing..).

First Crushes

Having your first crush can be weird and disgusting and so many ways we want to puke yet give our crush a peck on the cheek at the same time.  And of course, we will all go through that stage where we starting hoping our crush will like us back ask ask out and we’ll live happily ever after. Sorry to ruin your dreams of meeting prince charming cuz that ain’t happening anytime soon…I think…. I’m not saying you can’t have  a crush on that guy or girl, all I’m saying is that sometimes  is that it just wont work out the way we want it to go. That is precisely why its called a crush….I think….again. LOL. Back to the topic of first crushes. Usually when a guy or a girl has their first crush they go through emotions they probably have never felt before. The girl might start writing in a diary noting down all her feelings and thoughts and the guy would just….act stupid in front the girl…JK(just Kidding)….He could possibly write in a journal ( hey it’s not only a girl thing) too or tell his mates or older siblings or even possibly express his feelings by writing songs. I remember when I had my first crush. It felt quite magical even though I knew I would never have a chance with him. So treasure those feelings… 🙂

Keeping it secret

Sometimes keeping your crushes to yourself is a good idea. Unless the person you want to tell its better not to say anything because trust me the results might not be pretty. Once when I was younger I had a MAJOR crush on a tall cute guy in my class. I told all my friends including the ones I never usually tell things and I talked about him everyday. Until one day when one of the girls ended up telling the guys best friend that I like him. I almost died of embarrassment. His best friend then told me that the guy liked me back but I couldn’t be sure so I asked him after the last school period.  What I got as a response wasn’t what I expected. “Hey —-, —– said you like me? Is that true?” He turned pink. “—— said that you like me.” There’s awkward silence until I break it by telling him that I don’t. And I kept doing that. And doing that because I was so stressed. But after that I found out that he actually liked me back and it was kinda cute. Then, I may have been lucky but now I’m more careful of what I say. (I hope). So, go ahead tell whoever you want. But please think about it before you do. Is this person a Blabber Mouth? Can I trust them? Will they make it obvious? Be Careful. Stay Safe.

Expressing Our Feelings

Girls and Boys express their feelings in lots of different ways. Whether it’s in story form or in a song or poem they use their emotions to describe how they feel. When I had a few crushes before I know I used to write in a diary ( I still do, been through four diaries so far.LOL) I even sang to myself while I was in the shower. Because trust when your in the bed room you’re a talent show contestant but when you’re in the shower you’re  a international pop star. Here are some ways others express their feelings….

Song Writing, Poem Writing, Drawing and Sketching, Listening to music, Writing down in a diary, Writing a Blog, Arts and Crafts, And lots crazy more Ideas tht I can’t seem to remember.

Crushed

Finally, to conclude this I’ll talk to you a little about getting through a serious issue…..BEING CRUSHED BY YOUR CRUSH….Ikr. Sad.  This could happen in lots of ways.

He/She likes someone else

He/She hates you

He/She thinks you’re weird

He/She doesn’t even know you exist

etc.

But the best thing to do is stay calm and act like don’t you care. Don’t go mad and go home and sob in your pillow and not not eat anything for a week because that isn’t going to help. Talk to a friend about how you feel. Write down your feelings, express them. And if you need to, have a little cry. Sometimes it’s better to let everything out. You could even do something fun to occupy yourself. There are so many things you could do. Just remember be yourself. Don’t start putting on extra Mascara and Make-up and start acting totally different to who you actually are just to impress someone else. If they don’t like you that’s their fault. Just Be Yourslef.

So that concludes my advice to you,

Here’s a little video for your entertainment,

Stay Happy and Stay LOVEly (get it),

CrispyLipstick OuT💋

Stay Happy and Stay LOVEly (get it),

CrispyLipstick OuT💋

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